I don't know you, but I came across your blog after searching for lupus anticoagulant. I have also just recently had my first visit with an RE. I have had three early losses. We have found out that it is due to the LA. I'm so sorry that you did not like your specialist. Why don't you find one that you like and will listen to you? I'm sure there are other REs in your area. Just b/c your OB recommended him does not mean you must go to him. I find it odd that there is a plan for you to get pregnant, but all the testing isn't complete yet. And if taking Clomid is able to get you pregnant, why not continue to take it? You don't have to do what the doctor says. I did not like what my OB was telling me, so I went and found my RE on my own. I'm so sorry for what you have gone through and your losses!!